So, he pulled another DISAPPEARING act? hmmm?

well next time he contacts you, why dont you ask him why he disappeared and why he didnt keep in touch? if he gives a good explanation, then thats your answer. if he just says i was "busy", then maybe this guy just isnt sure what he wants. but if he says he loves you/wanted to marry you, i would think hes pretty interested! my question is, if you arent attracted to him, but think hes "nice and he'll do fine" - then you are going for him for the wrong reasons. you want him because you just want anybody to date, and since hes giving you compliments and attention, you figure he would do fine, even though youre not that into him. i would say try and meet somebody new. try internet dating if you are busy and dont have much free time. find someone who you cant get your mind off, and who you think is very attractive. you WANT the erflies in the relationship. if you just date him, to date him, eventually you'll be bored and will want to break up/cheat. dont be scared to be alone. remember your happiness does not depend on another person. its better to be lonely and single, than with someone you arent that into. go out, socialize, meet new people, or try internet dating (you'll have at least 5 dates a week), and leave fat disappearing boy to disappear for good, hes not the one you want anyway